The Blueprint (For Your Life)

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Even the biggest building in the world started out with a blueprint; a plan.  The word blueprint is defined as “a method worked out in advance for achieving an objective.”  There is an old proverb that reads, “He who fails to plan, plans to fail.”

This proverbs challenges us to figure out what it is we are good at (personally, and professionally) – and create a plan to achieve our goals.  Dreams come into fruition when we have a plan.  I can’t develop your plan for you, your parents can’t develop it for you, and neither can your friends, your boss, or your spouse.  Only you can do it!

What I can offer, however, is one key component to your Blueprint, and that is education.  The foundation of your plan should be education.  Not just formal education, but the type of education that encourages you to look at the world as your classroom.

Even though the U.S. Population is estimated at 310 Million, and still growing, never underestimated the power that lies within you!

The question now becomes: What are you waiting for to develop your Blueprint and fulfill your life mission?

© David McGhee

Take care of your past

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In life there is a cycle.  What you do in the present often determines your future.  Sounds simple, right?

It is simple until we realize that we’ve left out one important reality.  That reality being: What we do now (in our present) ultimately determines our past, our legacy, our history, our yesterday.  How our story will be told.

Believe it or not, we have more past than future.  And today isn’t really today, either.  It’s yesterday.  Let the future take care of itself.  It will be just fine as long as we do a good job at taking care of yesterday.

© David McGhee

The truth is: Everybody doesn’t believe in you

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Everybody doesn’t believe in you.  I don’t say this to be harsh; I say this to be honest.  Since this is the case you must believe in yourself.

Believing in oneself has become underrated in today’s society.  We live in a culture where we are too often seeking the approval of others.  Often times before we decide whether or not to believe in ourselves, or our ideas.

This happens no matter who you are, or where you are in your life.  Regardless of whether or not you are an honor roll student or a stand-out athlete.  Regardless of your title as bank President or your job as a gas station attendant.  Regardless of the nice clothes you wear or the nice car you drive.  Regardless of the 1,000 plus facebook friends and several twitter followers you have.  None of these things are more important than you believing in you.

In other words, it really doesn’t matter who believes in you.  All that matters is what and who (God and yourself) you believe in.

© David McGhee

Two sides to every story

  • Behind every barrier, there is a blessing
  • On the other side of your pain, you’ll find power
  • Within every obstacle, lies an opportunity
  • After tragedy, there is always triumph
  • What you consider mess now, will become your message
  • Your tests in life, will become your testimony for others

© David McGhee

Curiosity may have killed the cat, but you aren’t a cat

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Unless you are a cat, I would advise you to hop back on the curiosity train.  People who ‘play it safe’ don’t change the world…they just live in it.  Big mistake.

How did we get this way?  As we get older we tend to think we already know more than we actually do.  This in turn causes us to stop asking, searching, and digging deeper for facts and answers.  Curiosity may have been what killed the cat, but it is also what has made men great and has shaped our world.  How we live, communicate, interact, eat, get from point A to point B, has all been birthed through individuals who were curious.

Here are three ways to rediscover the curiosity I’m sure you once had as a child:

  1. Stay open.  The learning process isn’t one-fold, it’s three-fold: Learning, unlearning, and relearning.  Never take things you know (or think you know) for granted.
  2. Ask. Ask. Ask.What, Why, When, Who, Where, and How should be a regular part of your vocabulary.
  3. Read outside of your comfort zone.  Your mind isn’t limited, so don’t limit your mind.  Explore new worlds through reading subjects that you aren’t normally drawn to.  Your mind will surprise you and thank you for it.

© David McGhee

Why You Should Root for the Underdog

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The underdog is that participant that isn’t expected to win.  In every fight, conflict, battle, game, etc., there is an individual(s) that is not predicted to triumph.

Since the beginning of time, there has always been an underdog.  People know who they are, but they don’t receive the same amount of attention as the favorite.  The underdog isn’t the first choice for the record deal, or the shoe contract, or the executive position at the fortune 500 company.  Let’s face it.  Not many people purchase tickets to see the underdog.  Again, people know they exist, but the attention the favorite receives significantly trumps that of the underdog.

Oh, but when the underdog prevails there is a common resounding theme.  “I knew they always had it in them”, people will often say.

It isn’t uncommon for us to want the underdog to prevail.  It is uncommon, however, for underdogs to receive the amount of attention they deserve.

Regardless of our accomplishments, or lack thereof, each of us has an underdog within us.  Find it.  Root for it.  In due time, it will prevail.

With God, nothing is impossible… © David McGhee

The only way to make history…

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Making a difference is the only way to make history.  Not making money and becoming rich and famous.  Not making a career shift.  Not making new friends.  Making a difference is what gets you there.

History makers in our lifetime set out to make a difference, and ended up making history.  They carried an unblinking desire to make things better, change the status quo, and bring something into the world that was missing.

History is made in the present. – D. McGhee

Dear Flint…

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(A Citizens View on the State of Our City)

January 27, 2012

City of Flint residents, et al:

Let me begin by extending my condolences to the mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, children, and relatives of all of the unfortunate homicide victims this year, and in years past.  My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Also let me state that, no, I am not the mayor of the City of Flint.  I am simply a resident that loves his community.  When asked why I haven’t left this area to pursue employment and opportunities elsewhere, my answer is simple: I am in Flint because Flint is in me!

If you’ve ever watched television, listen to the radio, or read the newspaper, I am sure you are familiar with the state of our City.

FBI statistics report that Flint has a violent crime rate that has been in the top five among U.S. cities for years 2007, 2008, 2009, and 2010; witnessing record number homicides in recent years.

Though small in comparison to major cities, Flint isn’t exempt from large scale issues that face our nation; issues in the areas of unemployment, incarceration, infant mortality, poverty, etc.  As a matter of fact, we’ve been dealing with them for some time now.  As a community, we are in need of many things.  On the top of that list, however, is hope.

During this appeal, my aim is not to disrespect or minimize the efforts of any public official – or any citizen for that matter.  My charge is simple: To reinforce hope.  Criticism, finger pointing, and blaming may have its place, but it is time-out for that.  The “blame game” approach is no different from riding a treadmill.  It gets us nowhere, fast!

With hope, we must stand together as a community.  Mary McLeod Bethune, a great educator, always used her hands to illustrate this point.

If I take a finger and touch you, you may feel it.If I use two, you will know you have been tapped. But if I bring together all of the fingers into a fist, I can strike a mighty blow.

As a community, we need to strike a mighty blow to all of the ills that face us.

This mighty blow is not a violent one at each other.  To prosper as a community, we must join together recognizing all the ways we need each other.  All of us!

Blacks and Whites;

Public Schools and Charter Schools;

City Government and County Government;

Corporate Sector and Community Based Organizations;

Faithful Christians, Muslims, and those who are not yet saved;

All of us are essential parts in the body of this City.

Staying connected to one another builds strength, enhances power, and reminds us that it is not good enough, for just some of us to be okay.  The vitality of our city depends on it.  It depends on hope.  It depends on us.  And we, believe it or not, depend on each other.  Working together isn’t something that is nice.  It’s necessary.

We can do this, together.  I don’t think it is farfetched for us to have hope, and look toward the promise land.

On April 3, 1968, during what was his very last speech, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. told us, “I may not get there with you.”

He said that he had been to the mountain, and had looked over to see the promise land.  I can only imagine what Dr. King was seeing in this promise land.  I would imagine it was a land where there was racial, economic, and social justice for everyone.  Be it downtown Flint, or the North End.

Yes, I believe Flint, Michigan was a part of the promise land that Dr. King spoke of.

A land where the content of character truly meant something;

A land where we no longer had to fight for our rights and our lives at the same time;

Maybe it was a land where entertainment would not supersede education;

If you are into sports, maybe it was a land that had a level playing field for all; realizing that not everyone is born on third base.  Yes, some of us are born outside the stadium.

Flint! We are faced with the imperative task of coming together, persevering, and having hope.  Why?  Because if we fail, others fail also!  Starting with the African American male.  We must do what we can to save the African American males in our community.  If the black male fails, Flint fails.  If Flint fails, Genesee County fails.  And furthermore, if Genesee County fails, the State of Michigan is also at risk.

I know times are hard, but we have made some significant gains as a City, despite what the headlines may say.

We are a community that is known for hard work and innovation.  The automotive giant, which serves as the engine of our country, was born here on this soil.  Along with a public school system that attracted educators from all over the world to study our model.

As we come together, there are even more significant roles that we can play in the walls history.  Some contest that our city is on its knees.  I believe that with hope, we have the strength to get up.

Times of crises call for bold leadership.  Therefore, I offer this to you.  No one is better at leading you, than yourself.  This means that leadership is no longer only reserved for those who hold public office, or are in senior management positions.  It is no longer reserved for those of us with extensive resumes.  Nor is it reserved, with all due respect, for the church pastor with the largest congregation.

I call on us to shift in our approach and embrace the fact that leadership extends beyond a “position” and stretches far and wide into a place where our passions and purpose take the driver’s seat.

Personal agenda’s can no longer be on the agenda if we are to grow into a healthy Flint.  A Flint you and I know we can be.

A Flint that is committed to taking a strong stand against violence and homicide;

A Flint that has the utmost compassion for the least of these;

A Flint that has unwavering courage when it comes to ensuring the quality of life for our youth;

My fellow residents we must start with hope.  The challenges we face are an open book.  We just have to have the courage to read it.

Thank you.

God bless you and God bless the City of Flint.

With hope,

David McGhee
Flint, MI

Hurry up and R.E.L.A.X.

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There comes a point in all of our lives when we need to Hurry up and R.E.L.A.X.

R – Release

Simply put, there are some things in our lives that we need to release.  Nothing productive comes from doing that which you are not supposed to be doing.  Nothing!  Be it bad habits, or negative people, make sure you recognize them for what they are and release them from your life.

E – Encourage

Encouragement goes a long way.  When we encourage others we give them the extra push they need to keep going.  Think about a time where you were at the end of your hope, where you wanted to give up and then received an encouraging word.  This may have been the difference maker; the one thing that propelled you to keep going.  Finally, if all else fails, encourage yourself.

L – Lighten

Lighten the load for someone else.  Find someone to be successful for, and do something to enrich their lives and make their walk easier.  Why should you?  Jesus did it for you!

A – Attempt

Attempt something great each week, at least.  Dare to attempt something that scares you.  This is where greatness lies.  Nelson Mandela said it this way, “It always seems impossible until it’s done.”

X – X-ray

To X-ray is to examine.  An X-ray allows you to see beyond the surface, exposing things that are critical but aren’t seen by the naked eye alone.  We need to X-ray ourselves.  Dig deep and discover who you really are.  What makes you, you?

With God, nothing is impossible…

© David McGhee